This Mystical Life Of Ours
The Law Of Habit-Forming
Have we it within our power to determine at all times what types of habits shall take form in our lives? In other words, is
habit-forming, character-building, a matter of mere chance, or have we it within our own control? We have, entirely and absolutely.
For there is a simple, natural, and thoroughly scientific method that all should know. A method whereby old, undesirable,
earth-binding habits can be broken, and new, desirable, heaven-lifting habits can be acquired, -- a method whereby life in
part or in its totality can be changed, provided one is sufficiently in earnest to know, and, knowing it, to apply the law.
Thought is the force underlying all. And what do we mean by this? Simply this: Your every act -- every conscious act -- is
preceded by a thought. Your dominating thoughts determine your dominating actions. The acts repeated crystallize themselves
into the habit. The aggregate of your habits is your character. Whatever, then, you would have your acts, you must look well
to the character of the thought you entertain. Whatever act you would not do, --habit you would not acquire you must look
well to it that you do not entertain the type of thought that will give birth to this act, this habit . It is a simple psychological
law that any type of thought, if entertained for a sufficient length of time, will, by and by, reach the motor tracks of the
brain, and finally burst forth into action. Murder can be and many times is committed in this way, the same as all undesirable
things are done. On the other hand, the greatest powers are grown, the most God-like characteristics are engendered, the most
heroic acts are performed in the same way.
The thing clearly to understand is this: That the thought is always parent to the act. Now, we have it entirely in our own
hands to determine exactly what thoughts we entertain. In the realm of our own minds we have absolute control, or we should
have, and if at any time we have not, then there is a method by which we can gain control, and in the realm of the mind become
Here let us refer to that law of the mind which is the same as is the law in connection with the reflex nerve system of the
body, the law which says that whenever one does a certain thing in a certain way it is easier to do the same thing in the
same way the next time, and still easier the next, and the next, and the next, until in time it comes to pass that no effort
is required, or no effort worth speaking of; but on the contrary, to do the opposite would require the effort. The mind carries
with it the power that perpetuates its own type of thought, the same as the body carries with it through the reflex nerve
system the power which perpetuates and makes continually easier its own particular acts. Thus a simple effort to control one’s
thoughts, a simple setting about it, even if at first failure is the result, and even if for a time failure seems to be about
the only result, will in time, sooner or later, bring him to the point of easy, full, and complete control.
Each one, then, can grow the power of determining, controlling his thought, the power of determining what types of thought
he shall and what types he shall not entertain. For let us never part in mind with this fact, that every earnest effort along
any line makes the end aimed at just a little easier for each succeeding effort, even if, as has been said, apparent failure
is the result of the earlier efforts. This is a case where even failure is success, for the failure is not in the effort,
and every earnest effort adds an increment of power that will eventually accomplish the end aimed at.
(from: Character-Building Thought Power)